Self-worth beyond any definition

After we begin spiritual study, we seem to understand that the social framework and values such as success and so on cannot define the real us. We move our self-worth away from these hooks conditioned by society, but we begin to learn to know that we are creating our own. After understanding the truth, it is easy to link self-worth to the quality of external experiences created by oneself: "If there are negative experiences outside, I created them, so there is something wrong with me and I am not good enough."

This is actually the same thinking as the social definition of self-worth that we previously linked to. Originally, we linked self-worth to "whether we have a successful career, abundant money, etc." After learning spirituality, we turned to linking self-worth to "outside the world." "whether we have negative experiences", then it is easy to forget that our self-worth already exists and cannot be diminished, and also forget that the original purpose of learning spiritual laws is to help us decouple ourselves from all definitions and see our true, true nature. There is a natural value of existence. Only by always remembering that self-worth does not have any conditions or additional definitions, it is who we are, can we not be affected by the external environment and still maintain self-love.